1. Who is the oldest of the three Ward sisters?
From Quiz "Mansfield Park" - the Basics
Answer:
Mrs Norris
In the first chapter, the two younger sisters are referred to by their first names, Miss Maria (who became Lady Bertram) and Miss Frances (who married Mr Price). Mrs Norris is referred to as Miss Ward. This follows the contemporary convention of referring to the eldest (or elder) brother or sister by their surname, and the others by their first names. In the same way, during the party's journey to Sotherton, Maria is referred to as "Miss Bertram", as opposed to Julia, the younger sister, and elsewhere "Mr Bertram" is understood to refer to Tom, not the younger Edmund. Likewise, in "Pride and Prejudice", Miss Bennet would refer to Jane, Miss Elliot to Elizabeth (Anne's elder sister in "Persuasion") and Miss Dashwood to Elinor in "Sense and Sensibility".
The end of the last-named novel in fact centres around this very convention. When the Dashwoods' manservant Thomas announces to them that "Mr Ferrars is married", he means the younger brother Robert. However, because he ignores the custom, Mrs Dashwood and her two daughters all assume that he means Edward, the elder, and Elinor's sweetheart. (If this needed confirming, he does so virtually in his next breath by saying that his new bride is Lucy Steele, the one to whom Elinor knows Edward secretly proposed in an idle moment some time ago, an engagement he is honour-bound to keep - thus illustrating another convention that only the lady can break the engagement.) This results in Elinor's question near the end of the book about the health and whereabouts of Mrs [Edward] Ferrars, and his confused reply concerning his mother, before the whole misunderstanding is so beautifully cleared up.
Does this episode, however, raise the same question in your mind as it does in mine: that Jane Austen for once had to contrive an unlikely circumstance in order to make the plot work out the way she needed it to? Just how probable is it that the servant would not know, or would forget, this common convention? It would be the equivalent of someone today accidentally calling a "Miss" a "Mrs", or even of them not knowing the difference. I can't remember another instance of this convention being ignored anywhere else in Jane Austen's whole oeuvre.