5. In 1805 Wellington requested a temporary return to England to recuperate. Unfortunately, without first visiting Kitty, he was then given permission to marry her. How did he describe her to his brother after their reunion?
From Quiz Duke of Wellington - The Man
Answer:
She has grown ugly by Jove
In the years between his first proposal to Kitty and his rising star in the army, Wellington had grown all the more personable in appearance. Kitty, however, had not fared so well. She had become engaged to another man in Wellington's absence, believing all was lost with the future Duke, but on being informed by a friend that Wellington was still attached to her, she broke off that engagement and waited - and waited - and waited for Arthur's return. During this time, she had grown thin and pale, had lost all her vivacity, and wasn't in the best of health. Wellington, a great veteran in the field of battle, made the fatal error of receiving her brother's permission to go ahead with his proposal BEFORE first visiting Kitty. When he did finally meet her again, he described her later to his brother as "She has grown ugly, by Jove!" Unfortunately though, he was now committed, so the marriage with the reluctant groom proceeded in April, 1806. He didn't exactly charge up the aisle though.
(The years between 1805 and 1818 saw Wellington promoted to lieutenant general, taking a short break from the army where he gained a seat in British parliament, returning to the army and being posted to various other countries and military engagements. During this period, he was also promoted to full General, and elevated to the peerage of the United Kingdom, firstly as the Earl, then as the Marquess, and ultimately the Duke, of Wellington. Then of course there was the famous battle of Waterloo in which Napoleon was finally defeated. This was followed by Wellington's promotion to Major General and finally Field Marshal, the highest rank in the British army. Wellington then resumed his political career with a vengeance. He was not exactly what you would describe as a family man).