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Subject: Lesley is here now.

Posted by: lesley153
Date: Nov 09 09

I'd always thought that once you got a blog you had a blog in perpetuity, and could continue to add to it, whether you were a paying member or not. That may have been right at one time, but it isn't now.

I wrote an update yesterday, a few hours after I'd had an email to tell me that my paying membership had expired, and got an "access denied" message. I thought it was a shame to waste it. Off I go...

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Too bad all the continents aren't crammed all together like they were jillions of years ago, but I guess they must have split apart for a reason.

Reply #6001. Dec 26 17, 9:12 PM
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Jazzee, I don't like flying, either, but it's only the taking off and landing that I dread. It's not that I'm afraid; I'm not. I just don't like it. And even though it's fast, my body feels every single mile that is traveled.

You could do what I do, though? Just make sure you sit by a window, close your eyes, put in music, and then either sleep or pretend to sleep for the entire trip. Sitting by the window gives you an excuse to look out, even if you're not really doing that. And it also prevents anyone from being on that side of you.

I don't like talking to strangers on planes, unless they're mommies with little kids, and then I love helping to entertain those little cutie pies. Reading to or playing with little kids make a flight go very, very fast.

It's always worth it once you get there!

Reply #6002. Dec 26 17, 10:10 PM
lesley153
Jazmee, I hope you mended. Don’t people love their labels? Have you noticed, they tend to pick the least flattering and often the least accurate?

Postie, I’m with you on both those things. I’ve been in Bedford for a little over thirty years, but I’m still a Londoner. And I’m in a big house full of stuff. Because my husband (died 19 years ago) and I were both firstborns, we were the ones who cleared out our parents’ houses, and our younger siblings ran like the wind to get out of helping. So there’s a lot of their stuff, and a lot of my son’s too - odds and ends that are probably less important than they were ten years ago, clothes he wants to keep, and power tools he bought because he couldn’t find the ones he bought before. And there’s that thing that most men and few women do, buy a new thing, and keep the old one Just In Case.

Anyone know any good builders, who can knock up a good bridge, or moving pavements balanced on stepping stones?

Elle, I didn’t mind long flights. I hated the really short flights. Like London to Paris. You climb, and you descend. There is no level cruising. Clutch the arms till the blood leaves your knuckles, and keep the sick bags where you can see them. Before car and bus journeys, my parents fed me pills like Kwells and Marzines, which didn’t help at all. Ginger is delicious but that never helped either. The only things that did (don’t judge me!) were homeopathic pills. I know that sciency people scoff, and call homeopathy nonsense on stilts, but this stilted nonsense helped me not be airsick. *thumbs nose at sciency people*

That’s really heroic of you, reading to or playing with other people’s children. I’m sure you make a flight go very, very fast for the other passengers too!

Reply #6003. Dec 27 17, 7:07 PM

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"And there’s that thing that most men and few women do, buy a new thing, and keep the old one Just In Case."

Yup! I can't tell you how many remote control units I've found to televisions, VCRs, DVDs, etc. that were thrown out long ago... but the remotes still exist :-p


Reply #6004. Dec 27 17, 7:42 PM
Jazmee27
Yeah; right now, in this building., I'm "that poor blind girl." Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. *Girl* no. Definetly not "that poor thing" (one of the neighbors said that to my face: "oh, you poor thing." I wonder how I restrained myself...)

I love little kids, too, but I find myself tongue-tied. Mom's a lot better at relating to them (I feel like my vision impairment puts them off anyway, whether true or not).


Reply #6005. Dec 27 17, 7:45 PM
lesley153
Remotes, old mobile phones, instruction booklets, 27 "New Improved" disposable razors, and two computer monitors. :(

Jazmee, at least they talk to you - they don't look for people who know you, to ask them about you. When children see something they wonder about, they're ten times more likely than adults to dive in and ask. Is it worth finding out?

Reply #6006. Dec 27 17, 8:12 PM

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If you really want to get rid of a few things? Just move! Make a major move, and you will have to pick up every single thing you own and decide, "Do I want to pack this, toss it, or donate it?" Especially if you don't know absolutely where you're going to land. And if you haven't moved in awhile, you do tend to accumulate a lot of "stuff."

You will be amazed at how much stuff you donate or toss.

I know I donated at least 2/3 of everything I own, including furniture. It just wasn't worth it to pack it all up.

And now that I'm settling in, I am SO glad I got rid of so much of my stuff. I don't miss anything.



Reply #6007. Dec 28 17, 7:12 PM
Jazmee27
I miss some stuff, but I dont have BHS player (I have DVD player) so Mom has theVHS. Theres always TV; they play those movies at some point somewhere if Im looking).

Reply #6008. Dec 28 17, 7:19 PM
lesley153
What my son said about my wish to regain space:
Just throw things out. Odds are I won't even remember them.

What my son says when I make a pile of things to throw away: Ooooo I remember that! I wondered where that got to!

There's probably a moral in there somewhere!

Reply #6009. Dec 30 17, 8:05 PM

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Your son and my daughter are cut from the same cloth. One day, she urged me to throw out something that I wanted to keep. Eventually, I caved, and threw it out. In the middle of the night, she called, because she had changed her mind, so out to the trash I went, to retrieve the item.

One day, when we are gone, they will curse us for throwing out their 'prized' possessions.

Reply #6010. Dec 30 17, 9:42 PM
Jazmee27
Yeah, it would never occur to them to (somehow) make room for said prized possessions, or *gasp* to value things other than material possessions that can't be taken away (and are far more meaningful).

*Yes*, this is someone who never gets an opportunity to post.

Not everyone in this heaed agrees with me.

"This is mine, and I'm not giving it up... for anything." Forget that people are more important than thingss could ever be (pets are people too, so fall in this category).

OK... so I rarely do fun things like this (I can't say never, and besides, it's no fault but my own).

*Hadassah*


Reply #6011. Dec 31 17, 10:21 AM
lesley153
Postie, should we introduce them?

My son has never gone that far, but my husband got rid of things I wanted, and kept things I didn't want. I think he did it deliberately, as a little show of power. Anyone wondering why I stayed single ... how long have you got? ;)

Jazmee, they're always moaning about how little room they have. Their flat is an exact rectangle, in a block that used to be a bank, and they can see any point in the flat from any other point. If he asks me to keep something for him, I can hardly say no. Can I?

Who's Hadassah? Is she part of you?

Reply #6012. Dec 31 17, 7:15 PM

lesley153
PS happy 2018! :D

Reply #6013. Dec 31 17, 7:16 PM

Jazmee27
Happy 2018.

Yeah, Hadassah's "part of me," or one of us, as I say. There are many in my "system."

And call me/us Jaz; there is one of us named Jazmee, but she's a little (some littles can function well and are better at adulting than the "bigs," but Jazmee is one who is just designed/created to be a kid. I know this is confusing, truly I do. That is why we started "We are just people" on the virtual blogs here to try and educate people about us. Maybe we don't do a great job, but we try at least).


Reply #6014. Jan 02 18, 10:01 AM
lesley153
Understood. You are now Jaz. Or J if I'm being lazy?

Today son and DIL played in a New Year concert in London. Young London-based orchestra, and hundreds of young American singers. It was streamed on YouTube, so I could watch without going anywhere. O joy.

No more Christmas music playing everywhere, and Global's started again. So we're back to normal. Which is nice. :) Remember when Global was four times a day? Nobody slept!

Reply #6015. Jan 02 18, 6:12 PM

lesley153
Had a lovely outing on Friday.

I've known Rowena (8482) for the best part of ten years online, but only met her once when Mike (mjws1968) and I had a long weekend in Hartlepool a few years ago.

Last week, she and her daughter booked a couple of shows in London, and that meant three days and two nights in Victoria - including Friday lunchtime! So we had lunch together, which was lovely. I think the company was lovelier than the lunch. Are onion bhajis meant to look like tennis balls; and to have so much gram flour in, that they taste like giant falafel? After we'd eaten, we went to Oxford Street, so that Rowena's daughter could do a clothes trolley-dash. Always fun, watching other people shopping.

After we'd shopped, Jonathan came and found us, stopped for long enough to prove that he's real, they took two giant bags of swag back to the hotel, and he whisked me away for coffee. Three nice people in one day - how good is that?

Reply #6016. Jan 21 18, 11:54 AM

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I wish I could hear you talk, Lesley. I bet you talk with one of those cool English accents, don't you? :-)

Reply #6017. Jan 21 18, 2:04 PM
lesley153
One does one's best, old bean! ;) xxx

Reply #6018. Jan 21 18, 6:34 PM

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One of the things I really like to hear you guys say is "I say", you know, like when you guys say "I say, old boy! Could I perhaps borrow a bit of your Grey Poupon, my good man?" Hee hee! Man, that is just the coolest! :-)

You know, I learned just last year right here in FT land that the Cockney accent that Dick Van Dyke used in Mary Poppins was just horrible. Was it really that bad?

Reply #6019. Jan 22 18, 4:13 AM
lesley153
Oh yes. We love Dick van Dyke - don't we? - but Bert's accent was painful. Sorry. :(

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